While domestic violence is a very real concern in households across Illinois, not every allegation of domestic abuse is legitimate. An individual may accuse a romantic partner or family member of abuse to gain leverage in a divorce or child custody case, or out of anger or revenge. If your girlfriend has falsely accused you of domestic violence, make sure you understand your rights and options under Illinois law. Additionally, reach out to a criminal defense lawyer with experience defending clients who have been accused of domestic violence.
Comply with any Orders of Protection
If your girlfriend has accused you of physical abuse, threatening behavior, harassment, or stalking, she may have obtained an Order of Protection (sometimes referred to as a restraining order) against you. This is an official court document that restricts your contact with her, and it may also restrict access to a shared home or prohibit you from spending time with children you have in common. The order will likely require you to stay a certain distance away from her and avoid calling, texting, or emailing her.
The first thing you need to know about protection orders is that violating a protection order is a criminal offense - even if you believe the order was unwarranted. Complying with the protection order and following the provisions contained in the order is one of the best things you can do to avoid worsening your situation.
...